I find it so hurtful, He really doesn't care about my wellbeing.
It might not be that he doesn't care, I reckon he is probably scared of change. Try to write it off for now and next time he says it just say that you find it hurtful straight away, he's choosing to be single because he has you if he wants you, and you only want to help him.
He's had a girlfriend since he turned me down- (ended after a month or 2 - his choice) I will call him out next time and say it's his choice he's single.
Hmm it seems weird to me that he had a short relationship with someone else after turning you down, but definitely call him out next time and see how it goes.
He is just weird. But i will do. Thank you xx
You're welcome, I hope it works out. You can always send me a message in the future if you to talk about it (or something else) more :)
Couldn't agree more
thank you for MH Guy opinion! Merry Christmas!
He just simply didn't want a relationship with me. No real reason
Maybe he doesn't think you guys are a good match.
And that's fair enough- but I don't need salt rubbed in my wound.
You have every right to tell him that it bothers you.
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Yer we were hooking up for a while. I wanted more he didn't. Stopped when he got a girlfriend
Yes, but I assume that's a while ago, right? Is it possible you said something like "we're good, I'm over it", or you had a boyfriend yourself in the meantime?
It was march this year. I tried dating a guy a few months ago ( after he got with his most recent ex) but ended it with him because it didn't feel right.
There's a good chance he thinks you're over him because you had that thing with another guy.
He doesn't want to date me, at best he's probably hoping for the hook up scenario again. Which isn't happening. I wish I was over him , I'm not. he hurt me so badly this year, and now he's complaining about being single.
I think it's best if you distance yourself from him, focus on other men.
Couldn't agree more, unfortunately I see him every day. But for the last few months I've been doing exactly this. It's just taking so much longer to get past it.
Keep at it, it can take a long time, but it's always going to go faster the less contact you have with him. Also remember he hurt you, so he can't be as perfect as you once thought he was.
I will, just sucks right now. And yes definitely seen him for Who he is this year.