Guys, In all honesty, if you truly like a girl, does being too clingy even exist (unless it's crazy)? Do you care if they send multiple messages?

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I was telling my friend that all this game stuff is BS. If a guy likes you, then he likes you. It doesn't matter if you send him 3/4 messages in a row or call him it doesn't matter if you initiate.. as long as it isn't 50 messages in a row and asking where are you and stalking the guy. I mean reasonably.

Yes, if she is too into me I don't like it

Not really, no, if I like her then it doesn't appear that way

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watrewks | 77 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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I think it'd be cute if a girl sent me a bunch of messages I think that would show she's excited and interested in talking to me. But as long as it's not excessive like 20 in a row that are multiple paragraphs with a million thoughts on one particular thing that she sends multiple times throughout the day.

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genuinlysensitive | 475 opinions shared on Dating topic.

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What you described is not "too clingy" but yes it does exist. Getting upset after sending 3/4 messages and not getting a reply even though you know he is working, constantly texting and calling to find out where he is, demanding he always cancel plans when you are free, stuff like that.

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18to30only

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look at what I have here and let me know if your her will17466@gmail. com

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What's this? It's an email

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What's this? It's an email

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Shyrakeso

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The clingier the better, but at some point in the relationship it got to stop.

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Well is this too clingy? I saw this guy Thursday. We like each other. I know it. He told me he was going to have a very busy weekend and he doesn't have a phone, he uses this tablet for facebook, and it glitches sometimes. I sent him a couple messages about a topic on Saturday. He didn't open it. Sunday night I sent a message just saying I enjoyed Thursday. He just opened it today and no response. I want to send him a message tomorrow just saying hey, like I'm free ___ if you want to hang out let me know. Is that too much?

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By saw each other I mean I hung out at his house for hours and hours

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Shyrakeso

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It was not too much, but i would definitely wait with writing to him again until he replies, or it might be seen as too clingy. However if he likes you back, it would really make no difference. It depends on the guy. Good luck :)

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Asker

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Thanks! Would it be better if I waited a few days, like til Friday? Thing is, I think he thinks I'm out of his league so he isn't sure what to do with me

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Shyrakeso

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If you are so sure you both like each other, wouldn't it be better to tell him how you feel? I know I would like you to do that if I felt you were out of my league. If you think it is too early just go with your plan. No need holding back if you think he likes you as well :)

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You're right. I'm just not 100% sure :b I don't want to come on fast and then have him retract. I once told a guy (after talking for a few weeks and meeting) that I liked him. I seriously just used the words "well I like you so I'd like to see you again" and he was weirded out, and replied "oh um like you too haha" like saying I liked him was too much?

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Asker

Well is this too clingy? I saw this guy Thursday. We like each other. I know it. He told me he was going to have a very busy weekend and he doesn't have a phone, he uses this tablet for facebook, and it glitches sometimes. I sent him a couple messages about a topic on Saturday. He didn't open it. Sunday night I sent a message just saying I enjoyed Thursday. He just opened it today and no response. I want to send him a message tomorrow just saying hey, like I'm free ___ if you want to hang out let me know. Is that too much?

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Asker

By saw each other I mean I hung out at his house for hours and hours

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Shyrakeso

It was not too much, but i would definitely wait with writing to him again until he replies, or it might be seen as too clingy. However if he likes you back, it would really make no difference. It depends on the guy. Good luck :)

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Asker

Thanks! Would it be better if I waited a few days, like til Friday? Thing is, I think he thinks I'm out of his league so he isn't sure what to do with me

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Shyrakeso

If you are so sure you both like each other, wouldn't it be better to tell him how you feel? I know I would like you to do that if I felt you were out of my league. If you think it is too early just go with your plan. No need holding back if you think he likes you as well :)

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Asker

You're right. I'm just not 100% sure :b I don't want to come on fast and then have him retract. I once told a guy (after talking for a few weeks and meeting) that I liked him. I seriously just used the words "well I like you so I'd like to see you again" and he was weirded out, and replied "oh um like you too haha" like saying I liked him was too much?

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wajojoh

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i dont mind. Cuz i love reading

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Maxemeister

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I prefer it

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