I think Im being emotionally abused by a friends with benefits... he knows I have feelings for him.. I rarely intiate contact but he tries to contact me 1 or 2 a week and when I respond he is really rude or acts flippant... when I got tired of it I told him I didn't want to see him anymore.. and he replied who is this? He knew it was me he texted me the day before.. and then he said is this hoe 1 2 or 3.. wtf is this guys deal.. if he hates me why the hell does he keep texting me? Help!
Most Helpful Guy
Cut him off, once you get feelings in a friends with benefits you gotta move on. Me and my friends with benefits rarely talk and it works, we've been banging each other every couples of months for about 2 years now. If one of us got into a relationship we never got upset over it0
Most Helpful Girl
I think he is pissed off with being rejected, he's probably used to leading girls on until they get feelings for him. Maybe you telling him to get lost came as a surprise to him and it knocked his ego. I say knock it even more!
If he's persistent in contacting you stand your ground and tell the dickhead to take his baby penis somewhere else!2