I am 26 years old, 5'5 and 120 pounds... I don't have the urge to have sex anymore with my boyfriend, as I don't feel attractive. My thighs are too big, and my stomach is flabby, not to mention my muffin top.
My friends tell me I am not over weight, but I just can't seem to get over this.
Has anyone else gone through this?
Most Helpful Guy
I'm 6'7" 270 lb, and like my solitude a bit too much. My social skills aren't the best and I'm too nervous to make a move when in a situation that warrants it. I have some confidence, but it's not the type that the opposite sex would find attractive.
I'm still a little chubby, and I'm trying to lose the slow weight that I gained back in my early 20's. I gained roughly 60 lb's of weight over the course of 3 years due to my inaction. I'm working on it, and bettering myself, but in the meantime, I'm still going to be the quiet tall guy at the gym working out, avoiding eye contact, and generally stating to himself that some random woman that he want's to approach is too pretty for him.0
Most Helpful Girl
You know , I'm 5'6 and 145 , I have a little more stomach and a lot of muscle on my legs but the chubbiness on my stomach doesn't seem to bother my boyfriend and he's pretty muscular but it did bother me , but Honestly, who wants a Boney girlfriend? (No offense to the skinny people).
Don't worry about the extra meat that you have I'm sure that when you guys are in the moment he is paying NO attention to your flaws. Try to be more confident even if you aren't "skinny" men like confident women. It's a turn off when females talk bad about themselves. Trust me , you're fine, and if he doesn't like you the way you are.. move on. But if he hasn't said anything negative, don't assume anything until you're sure.0