Basically this guy I was seeing for a year plus, randomly stopped talking to me at the beginning of December. We didn't see each other for a bit due to busy schedules.. he has kids and I was informed the custody battle and finding a new house would start in December. The last message he sent me was "thank you baby, you remembered <3" when I wished him a happy birthday. I've reached out to him a few times and no response.. and also kicked him which had an "s" next to it. We've talked about if we were no longer interested we'd say so and not leave each other hanging. Why would someone do this? Its so WEIRD and extremely rude.
Got ghosted after a year? What?
What Guys Said 1
Hmmm. 22-36. Lives with his ex and kids. This sounds super familiar. He didn't return your kik?
Maybe your boyfriend contacted him and asked him not to talk to his girl any more. I mean that's the right thing to do right?
Thank you baby.
What Girls Said 2
Sounds like he needed a break so that he could focus on himself and the imediate things going on around him, without a distraction.
Give it a little time and then try reaching him again. Don't pester him, as this will only cause him more stress. Be peaceful, calm, caring and understanding, if you do get to talk to him. Sounds like he has so much going on, that he is unsure about the directions his life may be heading. Be patient with him and not pushy.0
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