Okay so, I'm a Latina. All my life I've dated only Latino men. Then after my Latino boyfriend of 7 years cheated on me and left me, I dated an Asian guy. Half, but he looked full and was fluent in Chinese. He was half Taiwanese and half White. I swear, he was SUCH an AMAZING lover! The best I ever had actually. The sex was so much different than with the Latinos. This guy was al about MY pleasure and it was just extremely hot, he was really great in bed and he was even thicker down there than my ex was.
After that, I have felt no attraction or desire for Latino men anymore. I'm not nor have I ever been attracted to black men, and white men are just blehhh to me, mostly because they lack similar culture to Latinos.
Latino and Asian culture put a strong emphasis on family and tradition, which I love.
the Asian men I've talked to also generally seem to be educated and have careers already, and have been able to maintain their finances well (I'm not saying wealthy, but they can support themselves and that's a huge turn-on) and they have been independent of their parents as well.
I have found black and Latino men to not be this way generally, at least not the ones in the dating pool, -and white guys is a hit or miss. Culturally, a lot of Latino men are babied and doted upon by the women in their family and they don't seem to want independence very much and do not value education as much either. The Asian men I have known were very ambitious and hard-working, and put more importance on that than being macho.
I'm only judging based on my experiences.
I've noticed though that if an Asian man does want to date interracial you it's almost always with a white woman. I think they may be too intimidated to approach a Latina.
After my experience with my Taiwanese lover, I don't see myself ever being in a relationship with someone who is not Asian. I don't have anything against men of other races, I just prefer Asian men.
How do I put that in my profile without making it sound bad?
Most Helpful Guy
Who cares what it sounds like? If you don't want to date short men, just let people know. If you don't want to date foreign men, just let them know. You are not obligated to date people to whom you are not attracted and you have virtually no control over what attracts you. I like petite women; I never made a conscious decision to date small women but it is the way that I am. So what?0
Most Helpful Girl
Your preferences are your preferences for a reason. If you're currently attracted to Asian men right now, then put something in there about how you appreciate the drive Asian men have and the attention they give to women. Don't make it sound offensive to other races and it won't be racist. You should still be open to other races though if the right guy comes along. It sounds like you're looking for someone who cares about tradition, family, and you. There's a few guys out of every race looking for the same thing2