1) when he's sober, he's blunt and there is no emotion in anything. He sounds like he has no interest in me at all but still wants to speak to me and gets aggy when I don't speak. - but if he says something that he knows is out of line, I receive a message from him between 12-2am apologising.
2) when he's ill or in his feelings, he tells me how he feels. He talks about the future, our future, he apologises for 1) him and he's the sweetest. We talk about us and he cares.
3) when he's drunk he texts me pouring out his heart. He talks about how much he wants us to work etc but in the morning he goes back to 1) and acts like he never said anything and without an apology.
I like him but I don't know if I should trust what he says in 2) and 3) if 1) says otherwise.
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He sounds like too high maintenance to me. If you want to commit the effort into someone who you will forever be drawing out of their shell then fine. I don't have the patience for that. It shouldn't have to be that hard.
Also, the fact that he only finds courage when drunk is a red flag.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE