A little backstory on this guy: I met him last spring at the community college I was attending at the time. He went up to me at the library and started talking. Before I knew it he was asking me for my number. After that experience, we had two other encounters. We had great conversations on both occasions and he even texted me after both occasions. But eventually, texting between us started to fizzle out. He actually invited me to go to this church event where they were making Greek food for the community. He told me I should stop by and said it was running all weekend. I said I could try to make it Sunday but later the following day, he said it was actually only going on for that one day. He would only be volunteering on that day, which made me question if he changed his mind. I moved on for sometime and deleted him from facebook, but he eventually re-added me. Then I decided to text him out of the blue around New Years and he said he had been meaning to text me as well. So I asked him yesterday if he wanted to meet and catch up and he agreed. We definitely hit it off once again and I still felt a strong connection. He even texted me immediately after and went on to say, "We have so much in common and thank you for listening to me." He even said, "He felt like I was reading his mind at times". All of this being said, I am really feeling this guy right now. It has been so long since I have truly liked someone and I don't want to mess it up or look desperate. We have connection, chemistry, and lots of common interests. He is what I am looking for. What do I do to get him to ask me out? I invited him to my birthday brunch in a few weeks. But I really want him to make the next move because I feel like I have been going out of my way to initiate a lot of it. He is a busy guy and he likes to fill up his schedule with work, school, and important activities as well. But I am the type of person who when I want something, I go after it. I just want to do it in the right way.
Most Helpful Guy
"I don't want to mess it up or look desperate"
Don't worry you'll most likely mess it up by looking uninterested.5
Most Helpful Girl
You can try asking him out.3