I like this guy but he is like 30 something and I am 17. He likes me back. He says he wants to wait to get with me when I turn 18. Is this weird?
- you need to just talk to him like he's ur friend6%(1)4%(2)Vote3%(1)
- don't talk to him anymore0%(0)5%(3)Vote8%(3)
- he's a pedo11%(2)21%(12)Vote26%(10)
- It's totally fine16%(3)18%(10)Vote19%(7)
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I voted B.
I don't find it odd in particular that an adult male would fall for a 17 year old female. I would find it odd if he -exclusively- fell for 17 year old females. I'd consider it a bad sign if he -preferred- teen females. I'd find it worrisome if he was indifferent to laws around under 18's. But could he be smitten with you, and willing to wait, and really like you? Sure. Could he just like the idea of teen virgin pussy and be investing and ready to wait? Sure. But you talk to him, not us.
I'd also point out that one of the biggest issues with your age vs his for a -long term- relationship is that YOU are going to change. He's not going to change that much in the next 5 years, you will. So while some people are worried he only likes you because of how you are now, I think there's at least as much of an issue that you will want something different than him in the future.
He might be a good guy, he might just want sex. Same as a guy your age. It probably won't work out long term. Same as a guy your age.
If he makes you happy, treats you well, then I hope if you have some kind of relationship with him, it goes well, and even when it's older, you come out of it thinking it had good parts and he was an okay guy and you enjoyed it.2