I just don't get it. Girls who don't give a care about anything have people who want to date them. Me, I pour every bit of my heart into everything. I'm a really good D1 athlete, I make straight A's, I care about people and I'm the one that all of my friends confide in and seek out for advice. Also, I've been told all of my life that I am very attractive.
However, I only ever get one of two things. Either guys who tell me how hot I am and try to get into my pants, but don't like that I don't party and drink, or guys who are respectful and like my personality but just hook up with other girls. Either way, I'm always "too high maintenance".
Is it me? Or do guys actually like girls who don't care so much about everything?
Most Helpful Guy
If you have been labeled high maintenance, then that is telling you something. It means guys don't want to bother wasting their time with you, when they can get along so much easier with someone else.
Essentially, you are not competing against other women well. Figure out how they are and how that compares to you.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
I feel the same way. I noticed that girls who gives zero fucks are the ones that are literally being chased by man. Also the man who claim they do not like girls who are fake, are chasing the girls who wear cake make up and fake hair etc. Guy say they want to girl who is loyal. However I noticed that a lot of guys do sleep with girls who would be considered promiscuous or a slut. Guy say one thing and do another. Are used to pour my heart out onto guys but now as I have gotten older I've started to care less because I do not want to waste my time and life is too short to care. I noticed that once I started to care less all of a sudden I tracked it a guy who I really like. However I am still single which is fine with me.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE