Reason I'm asking cause there is a guy I've liked for months now. I know nothing will happen cause I've already asked him out, to which he said no. He was super nice about it and we still talk as friends and get along well (he's a coworker)
But I can't get over him. Even when he annoys me it doesn't change how I feel, even if I try to point out lesser qualities about him to myself it doesn't matter. I'm always outweighing the good. How can I love someone who doesn't love me back I just feel silly.
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Its time to move on and let go. The guy isn't interested. As much as you like him, and as much as he gives you conversation at work. He has made it clear that its not going anywhere other than being friends. The more you keep obsessing over the thought of being with him, the more it will break you down mentally and emotionally. Im telling you from experience because I have been where you are. Move on for your own sake of mind.2