Should i change and just do exactly what they do i don't sleep around and consider myself a respectful lad who has manners and cares about a relationship being loyal never cheating and basically in my eyes just being a proper nice guy.
I'm losing the will to live over here sick of losing the girl due to these lads that go through them like socks.
Most Helpful Girl
That's because those girls are not serious and don't take online dating seriously. They just do it for the heck of it or for the attention. They know their not over their ex but use the site to make themselves feel better knowing other men want them. That's why I don't like online dating.. people are not serious...1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
Tinder is like the online equivalent of a night club. That kind of setting rewards superficiality, ultra confidence, and not exactly the type of guy who is "very respectful" of a girl. It's going to reward the smooth guy who can walk in and start dancing with a girl and getting frisky with her body before he even knows her name.
For you, I think a much better bet is do the networking route. Hang out with friends, meet their friends, meet your friends' friends' friends, and so forth. Pick out the pretty girls among your acquaintances and start charming them. That'll give you much more leeway to attract based on your better, deeper qualities.
That said, there is something to learn from player types. They do have a confident way of approaching women and talking to them. They don't need courage to ask a girl out (in their case because they don't care much for her in the first place, but the end result still attracts), and that can help a lot.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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