Hi guys, there's a guy I've been on a date with. We scheduled a 2nd date. When I told him I wanna take things slow and get to know him well, he said "I'm not so into taking things too slow. We gotta do everything quite quickly to figure out whether we fit. Don't wanna end up in the friendzone again." So what would a guy want when he says this?
And I'm not such a girl who'd sleep with a guy too soon in case he'd have only this in mind with what he said..
Most Helpful Guy
He's had bad experiences in the past, which is fair enough - but he is telling you about them and assuming you'll do the same too, which is NOT fair.
If you don't feel comfortable being rushed, tell him so. If he won't try to understand that and compromise, tell him that's it.0
Most Helpful Girl
I wouldn't do it.. he's basically saying he wants to either jump into a relationship very quickly which is never a good idea. If you can't compromise then its best to let him go..0