Last month I met this girl off POF who's pretty cool and cute, but the problem is she lives an hour away and doesn't have a car. I am also unemployed at the moment. I live in Chicago area and she lives in Indiana towards the border of Michigan.
Despite that I'm still getting some form of income, it still is tiring to drive out there a bunch as it's an hour each way. It'd be one thing if she had a car and we met halfway or took turns on coming out each other's way but she doesn't.
I have no issues with her at all, but I am wondering if I should pursue this since she it is hard for us to see each other.
Have you dated someone long distance? If so, how far and did it work out?
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Considering your circumstances there's no point pursuing a relationship with someone you can't see regularly when it will put pressure on both of you and cause strain in a relationship not even formed yet. Do the smart thing and focus on changing your circumstances rather than looking for a relationship, you have more important issues to deal with.0