What are your thoughts?
Most Helpful Guy
You're wrong, it's very easy finding someone you're compatible with and attracted to. It's simply a numbers game and the more leads you pursue the higher your chances. If you only talk with one guy at a time AND expect him to fulfill the compatible/attractive criteria then you might find it difficult - but that's down to the approach *you've* decided to take.
However i will say while it's easy enough to find a relationship, finding one that doesn't become boring after a year is much harder...0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
For some people it's just easier. They aren't as rigid with their "must haves" and are willing to give people a chance even if on paper they don't seem ideal.
I've had four serious relationships and when they ended I met the next partner quite soon after. They were never rebounds - just people that I clicked with strongly and I didn't question or reason why I should or shouldn't and it just happens.4THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE