No, it's not easy to find someone you're compatible with AND attracted to. I don't give the "bad boys" chances, no matter how fun they seem, but I'm not going for the first "nice guy" that comes after me just because he's "nice." If we don't click then we don't. If I'm bored I'm not sticking around. And yeah, I care about looks. I take care of myself and I look pretty good. I know looks fade but damn I want something nice to look at while it lasts. I haven't had my first serious relationship yet and I'm not wasting it or my first time being in love just picking someone.
What are your thoughts?
Most Helpful Guy
Those people have a different definition for 'relationship' than you and I. Some people are just 'slummers' and will say they are in a 'relationship' with anything that they can pick up at a bar and fck!!
They confuse 'fcking' with 'relationship' and think that they are the same. Also, when they have illegitimate kids, being too stupid, or drunk, to use protection, them ignoran' foo's KNOWS they in a relashunship 'cause dey has a kid!
A BAD RELATIONSHIP!!!2
Most Helpful Girl
For some people it's just easier. They aren't as rigid with their "must haves" and are willing to give people a chance even if on paper they don't seem ideal.
I've had four serious relationships and when they ended I met the next partner quite soon after. They were never rebounds - just people that I clicked with strongly and I didn't question or reason why I should or shouldn't and it just happens.4