Guys or girls what do you do when someone likes you but you want to politely let them know your gonna friend zone them?
Most Helpful Guy
A lot of women consider it nice to allow a male friend to have hope that he'll date her (when in fact she is completely uninterested). The reality is that it's not nice at all. Giving false hope to a guy causes him to be confused, to waste his time and money, and essentially to waste his life feeling unnecessary frustration. It's a good thing that you want to be clear that you only intend to be friends with him. More women should do this instead of stringing the guy along.
Here's the thing. For a lot of guys, simple hints will not work. Simply ignoring them at times then deciding to talk to them (because you are their friend) won't send the message across to a guy who is persistent. You have to be 100% clear with the guy. Tell them in no uncertain terms, making it clear to them that. First you need to make it clear to them that you care about them and really wish to have them as a friend. Second you have to make it clear to them that you have no feelings for them as a girlfriend and you should encourage them to find a woman who does.
So clear face to face verbal communication is the key. If you care about him as a friend then set him free.
Most Helpful Girl
See the thing about that is, that a lot of times the person getting friend zoned doesn't make their intent clear. So if they never SAY "hey i like you" or ask you out, how do you reject them? If a guy is being nice and friendly to you, wouldn't you be being presumptuous by being like "Hey I don't like you like that"?
Guys complain about getting pre-rejected by women (aka GUY: Hey do you come here often? GIRL: I have a boyfriend GUY: bitch please you ain't all that, I'm just trying to be nice)... but then expect you to tell him you don't like him when he tries to be your friend?
I'm sorry but I'm not gonna pre-reject someone until they give me something to reject. Ask me out? I'll say no. Ask me to come over at 11pm? I'll say no. But you just acting like my friend? I'm supposed to tell you, no dont do that because I'm not into you? makes no sense0