He's a really good guy, one of the nicest guys I have ever met. His personality is perfect with mine, and even though we've known each other for less than a yr, I feel very comfortable and safe with him. He makes me feel respected and loved. But the problem is that I am not physically attracted to him. He's not bad looking and two of my friends actually found him cute. He just isn't my type. We have chilled at his place before and watched Netflix. We would cuddle and just lie down together and talk, but everytime he would try to make a move, I would turn away to naturally avoid it. I just can't bring myself to get physical with him, the thought turns me off. But I do miss him when I am not with him. Do you guys think its right for me to date this guy?
Most Helpful Guy
I would say it is probably not a good idea if just the thought of being physically intimate with him turns you off completely. It will only hurt him and you worse if you go further and then can not go through with intimacy.0
Most Helpful Girl
No. He may be a wonderful friend but, if you are not really into him romantically, he will end up getting hurt. Soon enough, he will notice that you are distant and it will hurt his self-esteem. Another guy may come into your life and you may see in him all the things you're missing right now and you'll wish you were single. It's just not a good idea to waste his time and yours when you both deserve someone who is truly a match.0