He's a really good guy, one of the nicest guys I have ever met. His personality is perfect with mine, and even though we've known each other for less than a yr, I feel very comfortable and safe with him. He makes me feel respected and loved. But the problem is that I am not physically attracted to him. He's not bad looking and two of my friends actually found him cute. He just isn't my type. We have chilled at his place before and watched Netflix. We would cuddle and just lie down together and talk, but everytime he would try to make a move, I would turn away to naturally avoid it. I just can't bring myself to get physical with him, the thought turns me off. But I do miss him when I am not with him. Do you guys think its right for me to date this guy?
Most Helpful Guy
I am a little worried I might be the guy in this situation (well same scenario but not with you.) And I wouldn't want the girl that I like to date me out of pity or whatever if she didn't like me (not even that I need to have sex with her but I don't know if you understand what I mean it just feels wrong) but like I would stay friends with her if she didn't want to. I can't promise the same for your guy but thats me in a similar situation to him.0
Most Helpful Girl
It sounds like you like him in some sort of physical way but he doesn't have your dream body or maybe you don't like anyone that would ever like you.
You're asking this question because you want to like him. Sometimes the right kind of love grows slowly. Maybe a kiss is all you need or maybe he isn't the right guy.
If you turn yourself over to it you may be surprised in how good it feels. You deserve this kind of love but if you can't return it let him go.0