As a 20 year old woman I have been wondering for quite a while how do I attract the right guy? I’m quite an introvert that is also quite nerdy in some ways ; I enjoy learning and having intellectual conversations and I’m currently a first year political science university student. During this time in my life I would love to date and put myself out there a bit more for a potential relationship but I haven’t really had a grip on where to begin. I do not have any friends and I spend most of my time at home or when I go out I do so on my own or with my mother so I would appreciate some advice on how and where to begin this dating journey.
Thank you !!
Most Helpful Guy
I would focus on the friends part and try to build an expansive network of friends and acquaintances. It's one of the easiest ways since you get to know various people outside of a dating context first and can more easily choose among guys who you know a little better upfront as acquaintances and friends. It'll also help you to develop the social skills necessary to gain control over the situation and more easily choose your partners instead of having them choose you and just going with the flow.0
Most Helpful Girl
It sounds harsh, but unless you want to go though dating apps.. the only way to get out there is put yourself out there. Its easier now then it will be later - and also, if you don't have ANY friends.. I would actually prioritise trying to get a friend over a partner, at least ONE.4