Most Helpful Girl
Well that's true of anyone, the more you talk the more you stand the chance of puttingyour foot in your mouth but it's also harder for them to form an attachment or really get to know you... so you have to decide which is more important.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Guy
In theory, yes (sort of). That's excluding a lot of other variables that go into the reality of application though.
In general, it's best to let people (not just women) talk about themselves because it strokes their ego. People in general don't give too many fucks about your life or what you are doing. They are much more interested in themselves.
If you can be genuinely interested in what someone is saying, then they will be able to talk for hours. At the end of that conversation, they will like you, because you've managed to make them feel important.
With women, you always want to keep some mystery alive. The less admission you give her, the more interested she will become. Get her to talk more about herself and she will eventually start talking to you about her feelings and deeper level type of topics. In other words, she becomes invested while you haven't invested much of anything.
That sort of enables those rose colored glasses of her perception towards you in the best kind of way. If you are genuinely listening to her and being attentive to what she is saying (investing), then she will really start to like you as a person.
*On come those rose colored glasses.*
Once you're here, then you start slowly start reciprocating what she is giving you. At that point, you can admit to faults as a person without any worry as to whether or not she will reject/judge you because of it. That's because she already really likes you as a person. Anything you say at that point is going to harmonic to her. Everything you say will be a turn on.3THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE