I went on a second date with this guy I met online, he is really nice and very stable in terms of career etc. He seems to really enjoy my company and told me how his friends know about me and then told me about his life plan and how he wants to settle within the next two years - with a house and be married by end of next year. He isn't seeing anyone else at the moment.
I, on the other hand, just want a relationship and see how it goes... but I am nowhere near to being stable compared to him and him talking about getting married and how in 10 years he wants to be married with two kids. I like this guy, compared to all the guys I dated, I find him interesting and charming and importantly knows how to treat women. But him already talking about his life plan scares me a bit. I want to get married and have kids too, but I don't think I am ready as I am still figuring things out with my career.
We haven't even kissed or held hands yet, so far it's just him putting his arm around my waist as we walk.
Does he see me as a wife candidate? He seems more serious than me right - Should I stop seeing him? My friends tell me to not rush it because it seems like he is rushing and I shouldn't follow every move he takes.
Most Helpful Guy
I think he is just letting you know what he is looking for in a relationship, not necessarily expecting you to fill the billet.1
Most Helpful Girl
Jesus, I'd be running for the hills. I don't care how stable you are but you're planning our wedding already? Whatever happened to "falling in love, enjoying the relationship, forming bonds" etc?
Seems like he's treating it like a race. NO THANKS!3