My boyfriend of 2 years and I live together. We fight often and have broken up in the past for 3 months. Recently we fight before bed, and he just walks out of the house and sits in his car. I try to explain to him that I hate going to bed angry and upset, but he doesn't care. I know that we have to resolve our differences, but the way he doesn't care to make up before bed bothers me. Thoughts?
Most Helpful Guy
He is using the occasion to punish you. That is more important to him than resolving the disagreement. You should have a ground rule about no serious discussions after 8 pm or some other time that allows for resolution of conflict before bed.
I have a rule that, regardless of how angry I am with my girlfriend, when we go to bed, I tell her that I love her and I out my arms around her. It's just a disagreement, not a war!3
Most Helpful Girl
he's basically tired and doesn't want to upset you more than he has..
so since he knows himself better.. he try to avoid anymore fights and settle and after you are fine and not angry or mad ! comes up and talk..
if he doesn't talk about it anymore. probably he's not caring enough.
but I think you gotta write a list of pros and cons!
see if he got more good things than bad things... stay and try to solve it. if not... if it's hurting you more than it has to make you happy... go and leave him. but in a friendly way if possible!0