Most Helpful Guy
He needs to accept any job he gets til the career job he's good at request his services. Problem is too is that how long can you date him for til he gets a job? Months to a year or so. He just can't wait around for the job to call him, he needs to get out there & find another job til then. That puts a strain in a relationship if only one person is working & the other isn't and lazy. If you guys were living together, it won't work out cause they'll be too many bills for one person to pay. That'll cause tension between you both & fights start. You need to decide on is it worth waiting or that since he lacks drive & ambition, is it time to move on?0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
This doesn't quite seem right... why isn't he able to work another job while waiting (a rule I've never heard of)?
And why aren't you able to go to visit him, or use your wages to help with cost if you want him to come to you?0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE