A handful of girls have told me I'm too good for them or out of their league. some I liked, others I had just turned down, and others I said I just wanted to be friends. so different situations. I'm curious ladies, thoughts? if you met me or any guy like this irl, would you think he's out of your league or that he wouldn't be interested in you, and why?
A bit about me:
tall 6'5", thin strong and in shape (190lb). I model, act, I'm an entrepreneur of a growing company, I'm the most popular guy on campus (even awarded by the college for having the greatest positive impact on campus), served as president in an international honor society, 3.8gpa, going to law school soon. I like to go on adventures (put some on my YouTube channel), bake sweets at times 😁, and get along with and talk to almost everybody though I spend most time with a select few.
that's a pretty good snippet. recently there was a beautiful girl I liked. she was sitting on my lap and told me that when she first saw me (I was leading a volunteer fundraising team for the fight against cancer) she told her sister I was super cute and her sister (my employee) said I was way out of her league etc... so girls even tell other girls this (I'm sure for varied reasons).
another girl with a great personality (but physically not my type) told me that even though I'm way out of her league I'm the standard for the type of guy she wants to marry. parents have also told me I'm the standard for their daughters. (been introduced to a handful of parents by the way. they've all liked me)
so your thoughts if you met me or a guy like this: 1out of your league, 2wouldn't be interested in you, or 3too good to be true and that no good guys exist? please explain :)
I didn't become any of the above on my own. I have great parents happily married 23 years who raised me well. also mentors, great friends, etc :)
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Wow!!! You sound like a great catch. I would date you. Hmm I wouldn't say out of my league but then again how can you tell? It's all in what you think. I mean people give me compliments all the time on how great of a person I am. Intelligent beautiful soon to be engineer, loves Jesus... but I don't get offers to go on dates or anything. So I guess it depends on what you consider out of your league.
Though some girls I know won't date a guy if he's too good to be true. They will always feel like their is something wrong with them. Or that they don't measure up and will thus settle for a guy that they are too good for because what are the chances he could find someone better. But you could have any girl you wanted... that would scare some away or sadden them. If your out of their league you could always find someone better and they know it so...
A.) they don't get involved to begin with
B.) they get involved but become very clingy, needy. Trying to please puppet kind of girl.
I love baking too! Everyone is addicted to my desserts 🍨0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE