I have been dating my boyfriend for over a year. (1 year and 3 months) We are both faithful and we both love each other a lot. The other day he showed me some messages between him and his friend and I just so happened to scroll up and saw where his friend had a girl coming over to have sex and my boyfriend asked for pictures of the girls boobs. I asked him why he said that and he just said He didn't know because it was a long time ago (we had been dating for 9 months when this happened). He kind of turned it on me because 3 months into our relationship he saw a text on my phone to a guy friend telling him I loved him (completely as a friend) b/c he was going through a hard time. Its been a few days and I just dont feel like I can forgive him even though it wasn't that major. I dont know what to do in this situation because I love him more than anything and I want to be with him but stuff like this has happened before and he doesn't think its wrong. What should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
Its not uncommon for friends to share nudes (not that its good and I am not condoning it just saying it happens)
It probably meant absolutely nothing to him and he wouldn't even think twice because it wasn't cheating for him however it could e viewed as so by you.
That being said you should talk to him and make him understand that you are hurt by it. That should be enough to get him to stop (though not with porn this is a different situation). If he is unwilling to agree to avoid this kind of behavior in the future or if you catch him again than you should dump him.0
Most Helpful Girl
I would actually call that cheating, but that is just me.0