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Most Helpful Girl
Depends on how you phrase it just grabbing coffee while your already out (like at school or work) prob not. If you ask and then say "Okay, then it's a date... 7ish?" Or whatever time then yes. or "I'd love to get to know you better... coffee? I know a great place." Or seomthing along those lines2
Most Helpful Guy
Sure. It a kind-of-a-date thing. It's a great way to start off. I would always go for a coffee/tea first (or even a couple of times) before meeting for a whole evening because it feels less pressuring, less official, less formal and thus less serious in a good way.
You get know each other a bit, exchange some important basic information, maybe meet for another coffee, get a feeling for whether he/she is the right one and THEN go out for dinner. If that next level goes well too, you do it again for a few times, see how it feels and THEN go out for a whole day. Not only does this way of finding a girlfriend/boyfriend protect you from lots of disappointments but it actually increases your chances to find a good person.1