I'm freaking out because I think I accidentally texted him too much, and I think I ruined it all. My boyfriend and I got into a argument. I accidentally got paranoid about something and texted him too much. Now he's calling me crazy psycho. We started dating last month he recently drove 2 hours to see me and 2 hours back to where he lives and I just bought him an Xbox recently. We are both 21 in college. So is it really over? He said "you're crazy goodbye". This is my first relationship, so did we break up? Or was that just an argument that felt like it's over. I aplgoized to him. But he won't accept my apology. We were fighting all day. Any advice? When a guy says goodbye is that a break up? Im so worried. I apologized, and he won't accept. He said any sane person wouldn't text him so much. I was trapped in my own head. Did I ruin it? Im not texting him until Friday
- He broke up with youVote A
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personally for me i would not take it as a sign as a break up. (that is based on what you told me)
any respectful, caring guy would end off a relationship in a mature way despite how bad the issue or crazy a girl might be. never over text message. - if that is the case then girl you are way better than that. at least a phone call to discuss the matter. I feel like during a break up, a partner would definitely make it clear and give closure about the relationship ending like "i just can't see this relationship going anywhere". if this guy can drive 2 hours to meet you, i'm sure he can give you a valid reason too.
i've had arguments before with my boyfriend over text - and i realised that is the worst way you can try to discuss a problem or even resolve an issue, because they can leave the conversation at any point. sometimes guys need time to recollect/assess their thoughts and think about the situation. so don't get alarmed, scared or worried if he takes a while to respond. he just wants to remove himself from the situation.
For me it's important to verbally let them be aware of what you're about to discuss over the phone or face to face. like give them a heads up so you don't just drop it on them unexpectedly
Then again alternatively even if he thinks that's a break up, you don't have to interpret it as a break up. get some more clarification, but let him calm down first and come to you.
if he doesn't text back or at least try to communicate back at some point within a few days then his silence says something.