This guy wanted to date me in highschool but I found out he'd been talking to my friend and the only reason he was talking to me was because he didn't think she would give him a chance. Not long after that he dropped me and they were dating.
It's been 5-6 years since then. I'm not friends with her anymore and he's been trying to talk to me and get to know me again. I've been very short with him because I'm disgusted.
What would you do?
Most Helpful Guy
I can speak only from a male point of view.
I would say no.
I have been fucked over, rejected and hurt by women in ways that would make a script for a bad soap opera.
A few of the individuals who rejected me when they and I were 20-somethings, or Friend Zoned me, or fucked me over, came sniffing around after they hit the wall.
I pretended to not notice their mating dance. When a couple of them were more direct, I had to say no.
I told them to back to the bad boys who were so much more exciting and to take the Mini Me versions of the bad boys with them. They deserved each other.
In the case of your situation, tell him to go back to your former friend. They also deserve each other.
Most Helpful Girl
In this situation, though it was high school, I probably wouldn't go for it either.1