Very few guys have any sort of alternative if they become single (except for escorts, etc., pay-as-you-go company) but all the halfway attractive girls have a whole memory card full of guys eager to take them out on the spur of the moment, and few of whom would refuse if she wanted spur-of-the-moment sex.
Well, I know some that DO have a dozen, but a 'pool' could be just 2...
I'm asking why is it generally true?
Most Helpful Girl
I do have quite a wide pool of guys at the tip of my fingers, not gonna deny that. I can hook up whenever I wanted if I just asked, but I don't because I can't really be bothered at the moment.
The thing is that guys can be extremely desperate at times, some try to slide in a message every single day for months, many don't get hints if I ghost them or say Im not interested.
Secondly, its longggg been looked down upon for women to be promiscuous and actually "want" sex (unless they were prostitutes) but men being horn dogs, well thats just "male nature" apparently. And now its sort of ingrained in society that men are always horny and that they are always the one that pursues because they are desperate and that the woman is the gate keeper. But if she did the same as men then oh no she'd be considered easy and a whore, because it is not "in the female nature" apparently to want sex.3
Most Helpful Guy
I've always had the understanding its much easier for a girl to get laid than a guy , some will argue that but it does seem to be true from past experiences0