Like I'll fall asleep and wake up randomly and I'll catch him just staring at me or if we go out to eat, he'll just stare, and I mean watch me intensely and when I catch him, he'll try to stare deep in my eyes. I don't know. Its creepy. I was in a super abusive relationship and have told him many times that I don't mind if he's looking at me if we're having a conversation but it's unsettling how he'll just sit there, watching me. We've gotten into arguments over this. Can someone explain wtf is going on? Why does he stare at me all the time and why doesn't he get it that I frigging hate it.
boyfriend ALWAYS stares at me, its creepy how often he does it. Makes me uncomfortable. He's also slightly suffocating in the relationship. Wth is going on?
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He's probably a little messed up himself. Abuse victims tend to compartmentalize their trauma, and often it's not fully resolved. And just as often in attempt to work out those suppressed feelings, you'll subconsciously seek out someone very similar in attempt to recreate the situation to finally fishish dealing with it.1
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