Have you ever had too many options for a prospective partner?

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overwhelming.


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Most Helpful Guy

  • No. I can barely find 1 girl worth dating, impossible to be overwhelmed lol
    Maybe if it was just sex, then yeah, but it wouldn't be overwhelming considering I'm single and could be with whoever I want.

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  • No. Most of the guys who want to date me, I dont want to date them. The feeling isn't mutual.
    It takes a lot for me to like someone.

    We aren't all so lucky lol

    (and i JUST KNOW someone is going to mention this. So Ill add it, yes I've had multiple men ask me out near the same time. HOWEVER I wasn't interested in any of them, so they wouldn't be considered prospective partners. Also, Im obviously not considering dudes who just want to bone, because thats not a good partner either.)

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    • You're a tuff little cookie aren't you.

      ' We be like this latina chica living in the hood, baby got back... lets chill'

      But completely the opposite lol. So resistant hahah

    • @TripleAce what do you mean?

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What Guys Said 23

  • Chuckle, you asked a version of this before, and I asked yesterday why girls tend to have many options, and guys rarely do.

    This is a problem only a few wealthy guys have.. It's much more common with girls, since if they are halfway attractive, they have a lot of numbers they can call even at the last minute. Whether they want just a free dinner, or a whole evening's entertainment.

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    • I guess I sort of did, except that was aimed specifically at sex.

      I'm talking about dedicated partners, potential relationships. Not just hooking up.

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    • No, I'm not saying you were arguing. It's an observation on the question, though, that will occur to most guys. A vast difference in this situation between girls and guys. Maybe you should have made the answers girls only!

    • I didn't want it to be girls only. I never lost gender inclusive questions. I hate that feature lol

  • height not be that great talking to girls lol. so long as he's not asking creepy stuff, if he's a good guy and you like him, I said give it a shot. next time you feel overwhelmed with questions try using your answers to start an actual convo. find out what he likes, what you have in common and go from there :)

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  • Hahahahahaha no :/

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  • No such thing as too many options. You can only truly connect with only so mamy people. We only have 24 hours in a day. 8 to sleep. Leaves u with 16. Cut out time for this and that. Left with maybe 4 hours a day to mingle and shingle

    How many people do you think you can actually connect with to the core given 4 hours a day approx? A few at most the rest are just noise

    You're looking at it like buying a purse

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  • I don't have that problem, as I'm very.. picky.. :3

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  • Yesss! There's a ton of girls that I like at work, and I think there's at least two that like me back. It can get awkward at times. Not sure if I should make a move on any of them if/when I leave my current job.

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  • Only once

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  • Nah, I am pretty anti-social and have a lot of deal-breakers.

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  • I know them feels. Pick and choose.. pick and choose.

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  • Sisters, simultaneously, in the same room. I had to walk on those eggshells...

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  • That's what's known as "first world problems!" lol! Who are the prospective candidates?

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  • How many is too many? Also, do bad ones count?

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  • hook up with them until you develop feelings towards one

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  • I wish lol

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  • I have, i eenie meenie mynee moe to choose.

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    • I have too many "what if" thoughts so I'm just stuck tbh

      😂 Tho I'm leaning towards one 🤔 Not entirely sure on him yet

    • I usually sample before deciding tbh, lol.

  • Damn! You a playa!

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  • I have no options and no one ever wants to be with me, so no

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  • Pshh I don't even have 1 option. Maybe time to hit up tha tinder lol

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  • nope i wish but most girls dont think iam hot

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  • Yes... turned them all down. Had my reasons to

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  • Yeah I've had 1000000 options

    I couldn't pick one

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  • Usually.

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  • Girl problems are like the exact opposite of guy problems.

    Ones drowning from too much. The other is dying from thirst...

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