Even the sma traits matter.
What kind of voice in a male offs ale partner do you prefer?
What kind of hobbies, looks or thoughts?
LGBT peeps are welcome to answer as well.
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Thanks for thinking about LGBT peeps.
Attractive In Men:
-Can start and carry good conversations
-Less emotional than women (a general like about men, not specific)
-Good manners/helps without being asked
-Knows the right way to be honest, i. e. it's not what you say but how you say it
-Show genuine interest in me, i. e. listen when I talk, remember what I say, ask questions about me, etc
-Voice doesn't really matter, but speaking style does. I like guys who sound intelligent, don't use ebonics but don't talk like a geeky white guy, either. Not big on accents, either--I like standard American speech.
-Hobbies... I'd rather a homebody than someone who loves to go out/be around a ton of people, drink and/or party. I want to just do stuff together in private, or go out to eat, and of course have good convo.
-Looks... taller than me, and I'm 5'4 or so, so... not hard. I like dark features, i. e. dark eyes, dark hair, some skin coloring.
-Thoughts... history, politics, philosophy, psychology, sociology, culture, education and the world. And don't be sexist.
Unattractive In Men:
-Sexism, lack of intelligence, everything being about sex, being clueless about society/the world, being too young, being violent, having no manners, sleeping around/having slept with a lot of women
Attractive In Women:
-Mainly the same as in men, but also...
-I like strong women who can get fiery or are the type who are very cool until you mess with her, so the type you better not mess with.
-I love feminine women. A woman who looks amazing in dresses wins.
-I like women to be shorter than me, not taller.
Unattractive In Women:
-Basically the same as in men, but also...
-If she's young, like in her early 20s, I'd rather not. BUT they're everywhere I turn now, and some are really attractive. So, it's hard to say no. But she needs to be more mature than most women her age.0