Mixed feelings towards girl?

What do you do when you have mixed feelings?

My story:

I used to love my crush, I would have done anything for her...

Until I saw her boyfriend, I was hurt and still am confused...

I started to see bad traits in her...

I am not sure if I'm being bitter, or blinded by love, or something else...

Sometimes I feel like she led me on, she didn't tell me she had a boyfriend, she was flirting...

Sometimes I feel like It's my fault, I should have known she was just friendly...

Anyhow... She broke up with her boyfriend and I was in shock...

The girl I wanted was single...

But something told me to not chase her...

Plus I figured she needed space, but now she is dating someone else and it hurts...

I want to be the one holding her, but at the same time I have no idea if she is a bad person or I am the one at fault...

I am thinking about therapy I don't know. I can't get over her... It's been 2 years...

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Then I guess I need therapy as well. I can't get out of my own head either and it's been far too long!

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    • My mind will explode soon

    • I'm about to crack😞

Most Helpful Guy

  • I agree here that you need therapy far, far more than you need a girlfriend. I mean, do you at least see from what you wrote that this whole situation is needlessly dramatic?

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    • No, what do you mean?

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