Me and this guy have been spending time together for a few months. When we hang out together we have a great time and he is always laughing and smiling in my company.
I asked him recently what he felt about me and he went very flustered and started stuttering and repeating himself. He went very embarrassed and said that he enjoys spending time with me and wants to continue hanging out with me. He also said that at one point he was thinking 'should I kiss her'
But then he said 'i hope you still want to hang out with me after tonight'
Why did he say after he said he wanted to kiss me and then friend-zone me?
Most Helpful Guy
Men do that for the sake of making you think about them and coldly hooking you into themselves. It doesn't means he wants a relationship with you, but that's not an unusual behaviour. I've done this before, after kissing a girl and taking a next step for the sake of always having her availability active.1
Most Helpful Girl
THAT'S NOT FRIEND ZONING YOU!
Your other question annoyed me too because I just wonder how you can be so oblivious lol (no offense). He likes you but he's shy and the reason he said "i hope you still want to hang out with me after tonight" is because he's worried that he's scared you off by telling you how he feels. He feels like you don't like him back and now things are going to be awkward and you won't want to be around him anymore.
Why don't you just tell him how you feel or make the first move? You're confusing him and he's too unsure/shy to just go for it.0