First let me say that cheating is based on whatever the couple defines as cheating.
So cheating could be different to every relationship because every relationship has different standards.
Anyways this Girl who has a boyfriend made out with another girl at a party. Eventually she felt bad and then when she told her boyfriend her boyfriend was pretty much like "Oh you made out with a girl? That's ok, I'm cool with that"
Ok so there we go, the boyfriend is ok with his girlfriend making out with other women, so if that's how they want to manage the relationship it's fine.
My problem is that when this women justifies what she did the reason I have a problem with it is because she went to a part and made out with another women without knowing for sure if her boyfriend would be ok with it, or assume he would be ok with it without talking to him first.
And then when she felt guilty and told him she was lucky that he happend to be cool with it... but what if he wouldn't have been cool with it? What would she have done then?
So is it cheating for her to do something without knowing if her boyfriend would be cool with it and just assume and did it anyways, even if by pure luck she happaned to get away with it because he was cool with it?
she thought I was being too judgmental