I need to know why my man would not get a divorce from his ex who he was with before me? It's been seven years!!! Its making me very cold towards my relationship and the way I feel about him. There is no way he still sees her. So I definitely know that's not why. It comes down to him being a cheap person and putting our love on the line just because he doesn't want to spend the money to get it done.
Most Helpful Guy
I'm guessing he doesn't see marriage as a big deal. As you said, he doesn't want to get the divorce done officially.. You also did say that you married young. So yeah, I'm guessing he doesn't think much of marriage. Doesn't mean he doesn't love you though, as we see in the 7 year relationship you have.1
Most Helpful Girl
If you are so inclined for him to get divorce do him the favor and pay it for him. This way he'll no have excuse to be cheap. If he declines, than I would be alarmed.2