I've been talking to this guy for a little bit now and we work really well together personality wise. He just got out of a one year relationship with a girl who would verbally abuse him, and never spent time with him or wanted anything to do with him. They spent time together out of school four times in a year. She never met his family and whenever he wanted to go to her events (i. e choir concerts) she would say no.
He's a nice guy, fun to talk to and joke around with, and we text kind of a lot every day. After they broke up we talked about a lot of dating theoreticals and moved really fast by telling each other we liked each other when we really weren't sure and etc. We're just friends right now and we're seeing if it develops into more. But i'm really sexually attracted to him and vice versa and I want to know if it would sound bad to tell someone that the first guy i had sex with i wasn't even dating or didn't know for years or something. I'm interesting in having sex with him and vice versa but i really don't want to become a booty call or some side hoe. That's why i would feel more comfortable if we were dating because i would trust him more since he would be in a relationship and not just hooking up.
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you're always going to feel slutty. Girls are trained from the age of five to feel slutty for even thinking about sex. The question then becomes whether or not you can learn to like feeling slutty. Most guys learn this pretty quick. Don't know why girls give into the societal expectations, but whatever..0