I've never gotten the opportunity to actually learn how to be good in bed and those times that I have slept with a girl I've been both literately and and figuratively thrown out because of how bad I was and am. Because of this I am incredibly afraid of actually doing it anymore just because I'm scared to be thrown out again because of it.
So let's say any of you girls were to start dating someone and he told you after a few promising dates about this, or at least that he's really bad at having sex just as a warning that if sex is an important part of what you view as a relationship that it would be better if you just stayed as good friends. How would you react?
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The problem with sex is that when it's bad, you don't dare mention it because you fear you'll hurt the person you're with. If you're upfront about it, tell the girl you're willing to learn, then it can only gets better.
Being good at sex isn't natural. Sure, some learn faster but we all had to learn and that happens with communication.
Your situation isn't set in stone, you can learn with her.1