So my guy tells me he is going to the movies. I say ok and then he says lemmi call her to clarify the theater they are going to. Then I was like ok... who is it? He says Rachel. Then I'm like ok... who else? He says this girl he calls Jazzy and two other guys, however later he says two people cancel. He says Jazzy and this other dude but I was wondering if he would still go if the two people who canceled were the two guys. I asked him and he said of course. I've never met these two girls before but one of them I caught twice flirting with him in one day... He played it off like I was overreacting because they were just close friends and that is how they are. Now he is getting all defensive with me because I seemed sad/ jealous from his response to my question and accused me of not trusting him when I really just don't trust the one girl. So what would should I do?
Most Helpful Guy
I behave this way only if I know that someone is overreacting, and that I know that you'd be concerned about whoever I'm meeting up with. Immature I know, but it's really not a big deal in this case. It's just his reaction to your great predictability.0
Most Helpful Girl
No- no and no. However it's weird that he's asking your permission but there's something called respect and in a relationship it would've been wise for him not to accept this movie "date" lol. Especially if he's been flirting with them, you can't forbid anyone to not hang out with people however it's common sense not to do something that would piss your partner off.0