Am I being a jerk?

I was dating this guy for 3 months. I kept telling him I had feelings for him like love but it was only chemicals and that he should tell me when he falls in love with me but I need time because feelings are svary.
So weeks later he tells me he loves me but understands I need more time. Then a week later he dumps me.
I told him he needs to learn self confidence and was intimidated by mine and that he liked me way too much way too soon because loving someone is a lifelong process. 3 months doesn't cut it.


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What Guys Said 2

  • yes :>

  • Why did he dump you?

    • Because I was being distant and like to isolate myself. Obviously he is not self reliant. It must have scared him.

    • He liked you but I do not think he loved you. Love does not quit that fast.

What Girls Said 1

  • Every feeling we have is chemicals.
    And yes, you were being sort of a jerk.


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