What do you do when he says he's not ready to commit?

Have you ever seen someone for so long that they've become a consistent part of your life and as you decide you have feelings for them, they respond that they're not ready to commit?

What do you do then?


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What Guys Said 2

  • Dating is to discern whether it's a match or not. This is the time to use judgement on whether you think you could deal with this person on an ongoing basis, even for the rest of your life. You have to weigh if they are worth your investment in time and your emotions.

    You have to be able to discuss all topics, even those of future plans, whether you see yourself as a family, kids or not, and long term types of things.

    If things are moving in that directly then take your time and enjoy the ride. If they're not and you're not going where you want then bail and find someone else. Don't think anyone is going to change dramatically - THEY DON'T.

    Men get with women hoping they'll never change. Women get with men hoping they can make them into something they like.

  • They can think it is probably early for the relationship


What Girls Said 1

  • You walk away.
    No, I have never been with anyone who had no feelings for me.


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