I do understand that you should try to be the best version of yourself, work for your dreams and not care about being single too much. Heck, at this moment while I'm typing this sentence, I'm satisfied with my life. But every once in a while, seeing all your friends pairing up has its tolls. So I was wondering if people really seriously believe of finding a person who is the perfect match for them in this entire world (going along with the soap opera logic)? Is that even possible in life? Shoot me your honest opinions, guys I'm somewhat curious.
Most Helpful Guy
I believe in that logic. Yes. It is possible.
People look at life differently, observe and approach differently. Many of the situations that individuals face might not work for the person standing next to them.
But for me personally, i believe everyone have an other half. The fault of failures and complications regarding this subject is on people themselves. I believe the more you search, the less you find. Most of people are victims of their own wrong calls. The series of inappropriate decisions and impatient behaviors. The majority of people follow the road to find someone special while they can't even identify the nature and the meaning of love. The confusion between love and lust. The instinct of lust misguide individuals. Their curiosity and impatient involvements improves the whole process.
To me, the relationship is not a goal. The purpose of life defines within who we are? Who we want to become? Where we are in life? Where do we want to go? finding ourselves, creating ourselves, declaring our life's road. Aim and purposes. Milestones to break. A look to the future. Future of our existence and where we want to stand and make a mark. Sometimes it's a very extended challenge. But i believe if you don't have a life you can't have a successful relationship. Or it would be struggling. One piece of puzzle is missing beside identifying the nature of our emotions. Despite the fact sometimes finding our way aligns with having our partner. But if you can't understand yourself, you wouldn't be able to understand someone else either. If you don't know who you are and where you wanna go, there is no way to understand someone else's desires. You reach your inner-self. Then you get into a relationship and share each other's lives and paths and continue to the road together.
Do i believe finding "The one and only" soon?
As i have said, yes i do. I have found mine very soon. She's my heart, soul, spirit and breath. How do i know it's true? well, how do you know your heart is beating in your chest? Is it possible to fall in love again-with someone else? maybe. But i am sure of something. No one is above her and her place in my heart is unreachable. 2012-Present.1
Most Helpful Girl
Yes I believe that one day someone can find him/her and will know that he/she is the one you want a future and start a family with.1