I'm 21 now, and I haven't had a boyfriend since I was 13. I have friends that make it seem like getting a boyfriend is problem at all. One friend's always been in relationships since she was 13. Another friend just dumped her baby daddy and a month later found the love of her life. And I'm sitting here losing my mind (I'm kidding) because I've been trying to find a boyfriend for three years and I'm still struggling.
Anyone else feel like that?
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Most Helpful Guy
I couldn't agree more! I am 30, and have had just 3 relationships till now, none of them lasting beyond a few months, and each being years apart. And I had my first relationship at 23 (yeah, I was a late bloomer).
But it doesn't bother me anymore. I have social anxiety and am socially awkward, which rules out me being able to approach women. And women want 'confident' men, nothing less (as if confidence can be manufactured).
I'm not bitter, but I I have also realised I should stop trying to do something which is really hard for me (dating) and focus on other priorities in life. 😊0
Most Helpful Girl
I think other people sacrifice more than me and that is why they date more often then me - my cousin would work out 3 times a day and she would eat extremely calorie and spend 12 hours a week shopping for clothes - she got asked out about 5 times a week. I was a lot lazier than her. I had another friend who would spend over $200 dollars every couple of weeks on a dinner party where she invited all of her best looking and richest friends over because she wanted to impress the guy she liked and made him believe that she was good enough for him. I know other girls who walk around in high heeled shoes for 4 hours a day cause they want guys to notice them - by no means do I think my dating life is harder than their's!3