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Most Helpful Guy
Gave POF and Tinder a shot for a few months over a year ago. I got 30 dates in just over 4 months, but that number would have been double if I hadn't either caught or called out fatfish, or if I counted dates I walked out on. The reason? Fats who lied about being fat. I got good at telling about old or angled photos, but a few crafty bitches got around my radar and I actually showed up to meet them to find something that looked like it ate the girl I was expecting.
Ladies, this might work with a more timid man. But a word of advice? You never know when you're going to get the guy who can yell loud enough to call cadence for a battalion formation, who will use that volume to loudly announce, "Why did all your Tinder pictures look like you weigh 50 pounds less?"
Fuck your feelings. Lie to me, you're getting publicly fat shamed. Me? I'm moving on to thinner (better) women, and I will sleep like a kitten without a moment's further consideration or guilt.
Other than that, I discovered something. If a woman weighs what all women ought to weigh, and is young, there is a REASON she needs some form of online dating. There will always be a REASON that men IRL aren't hitting on her enough to fill her date nights with plans. And whatever that reason is, it's a reason you don't need to waste your time finding out. Men might need it, because women do not approach anywhere near the amount men do, but a woman needing online dating is broken. If they weren't, men would pick them up in person aplenty.4
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Most Helpful Girl
I've never joined a dating site , and never will. I don't trust people online. I need to get to know a guy in real life before I'd ever consider going on a date with him
I've heard of a few horror stories about online dating though. A guy tried to arrange a date with my cousins friends online, but he never showed any pictures of himself, except for one . He constantly asked for photos of her , but never showed any of himself. That's a dead giveaway you're being catfished. A sincere person will show you many photos to prove they are who they say they are. She'd caught him out on a few lies too. She didn't meet up with him, but played his game for a while.
The internet is known to be a psychopaths hunting ground, so I'd rather stay single than take my chances with a guy online. I'm in a loving relationship, but I have know him all of my life3