My boyfriend says that he prefers blondes on his old dating profile. I'm a brunette. Should I leave him? (Page 2)
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Just because it says that don't mean he doesn't find you attractive. He wouldn't be with you if he didn't find you attractive
Means he changed his mind and open up his preferences a bit?
The key word here is 'old' he might not still feel that way
Are you unhappy? He's unhappy with you?
Those are just preferences.
May also just mea he saw sometthing more in you than just your colors, wish is good.
No that was just his type at that time. You're still sexy to him even as a brunette. He isn't wholly biased on one hair color.
I'm surprised he hasn't deleted his profile. However, he's with you now. I think it matters that he's changed.
Do physical preferences change?
yes. maybe a little. Mine changed from strictly punk or goth girls to include normal, sporty, and nerdy girls when i went from highschool to college. I never cared for ethnicity as long as she dressed a certain way.
If you weren't good enough, then he wouldn't be dating you.
He clearly doesn't mind.
I preferred barbie dolls till my short thick brunette wife walked into my life
I put up on my profile years ago that I prefer dark haired/tan guys and am perfectly happy with my ghost pale, little mayo jar boyfriend.
A brunette can become a blonde in one hour, using some shampoo
If you feel like that do it.
It means she didn't met you yet, he may like that type of girls that doen't mean there can't be no exception
THAT is very rude. you should tell him that you prefer men with big cocks but you're settling for him
Yes, you should leave him.
Oh stop that nonsense, He still choose you!
Would be extremely shallow.
Have you talked to him about it?
No...
You're in an relationship; you should have an open dialogue.
I think he would be creeped out by the idea that I was looking at his old dating profile.
Don't mention the old profile. Ask him if you are his ideal woman.
You're one of those aren't ya
That's where you guys base your love? Wow ok
Is that Mostly important?
It sort of is because that means that I'll never be as good as a blonde to him.
Ok. First ask yourself (in your heart) I'll never be as good as a blonde. Is it important? How much is it important? And you will ask him that questions. Do u get it?
Now I will sleep tomorrow I gone to job in the morning take care see you tomorrow
first, why is he on okcupid when he's with you?
It's an old profile.
then you don't have to care about it
Do preferences change? Why is he dating me if I'm not a blonde or white? Why does he call me "hot" if I'm brunette?
maybe he changed. he's your boyfriend. he loves you and your looks too.