My friend of 8 years, recently told me that he likes me. It escalated to him writing me love texts, and proclaiming that he loves me and that I am the most amazing person he has ever met etc. He knows that I have a boyfriend (although my boyfriend and I have problems), and he is consistently trying to spend time with me. I refuse to see him, but I miss him- and things won't be the same. How do I deal with this?
Most Helpful Guy
meet with him publicly and tell him you just want to be friends or you have to stop being friends for his sake2
Most Helpful Girl
This can be rough...
But if you don't have any intentions of being with your friend, I think it would be best to not be friends anymore. It can be hard for the both of you, but you could be leading him, thinking he has a chance still.0