Why wouldn't he sleep with me?

This is kind of strange but I've been racking my brain and can't figure out an answer. The guy I was dating and I stayed in a hotel together following a party and following the party he didn't want to have sex. He said he had too much to drink, he didn't want sex in the morning either yet we spent the entire next day together. We don't see each other too much anymore but I can't quite figure this out. Thoughts? Guess I should add we have had sex before that night...


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Most Helpful Guy

  • Probably didn't want to when driunk due to whiskey dick and/or lack of balance. Probaly didn't want to in the morning due to a hangover. Combine all of this with an attitude of he could take it or leave it, and I think that pobaly explains it.

    In a nutshell he wasn't that interested. He may have been slightly, but not enough to bother.

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    • I agree, I'm thinking this kind of sums it up.

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    • And with that said I'm about done with online dating lol

    • Once I've decieded they're attractive or not, I have to talk to them and figure out what up with them. Usually I hear something that makes be be all "Nope".

Most Helpful Girl

  • Shocker, but males are not always horny.

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    • I guess not! Lol couldn't help but take it personally

    • It has nothing to do with you, trust me.

    • Thanks and you're probably right but I couldn't help but wonder...

What Guys Said 8

  • He was drunk and then hungover, probably.

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    • Kind of sounds like an excuse, no?

  • Most likely, performance anxiety or self conscious about his body. But only he can answer this for certain. Talk to him about it.

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    • It's been long enough ago no need to bring it up though it puzzled me!

  • He just wasn't feeling it I guess.

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  • because guys these days are afraid of the girl calling rape if they bang and she regrets it after she was drunk.

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    • I think we're a little past that point in life...

  • it maybe wasn't good. or he just don't feel it anymore

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  • May be he not enjoyed with you

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    • Then why not leave ASAP the next day?

    • you write in last line you had sex in one day back

    • It would not have been the first time

  • He out fucking other girls...

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  • He likes you.

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    • How do you figure?

    • He enjoying hanging out with you. He thinks sex will hurt it.

    • Interesting angle and thank you, everything I thought was so negative!

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