I put this question under dating because I feel that's where I've seen the most finger-pointing. I didn't think it was fair to put it under guy's behavior because I'm sure girls do that too even though I haven't seen it myself.
Most Helpful Guy
i can think of a thousand reasons... how about you improve yourself and do everything you can to become successful and all and still fail? who's fault is it that your worked hard, both on yourself, career and all and still ended up miserable? yours? please...
People fail most of the time because of standards or cliches imposed by society, if there are no standards like "he has to be... has to have... should be... must have..." where do you think all these come from? the more standards appear the more it becomes impossible to find someone close, a good job that you feel comfortable with and many others...0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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You have a point here. Far to many people are quick to plau the blame game especially in my culture... African American. This is something that I notice about a lot of guys they are quick to blame "the white man" on why they can not find a job when in fact they have not been putting in any effort at all. One job interview a week isn't good enough, if you know the odds are stacked against you then you should be going on mutiple interviews a week to increase your chances.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE