I never understood why so many people refuse to take personal responsibility. Wouldn't it be better to believe you can improve your situation instead of becoming bitter in your pity party?
I put this question under dating because I feel that's where I've seen the most finger-pointing. I didn't think it was fair to put it under guy's behavior because I'm sure girls do that too even though I haven't seen it myself.
Most Helpful Guy
blaming society without doing anything about it is wrong
blaming society for something you can't help but deal with it then make your way around/through it, is ok2
Most Helpful Girl
You have a point here. Far to many people are quick to plau the blame game especially in my culture... African American. This is something that I notice about a lot of guys they are quick to blame "the white man" on why they can not find a job when in fact they have not been putting in any effort at all. One job interview a week isn't good enough, if you know the odds are stacked against you then you should be going on mutiple interviews a week to increase your chances.1