We were best friends who developed feelings for each other... And just kissed one night. After that night he initiated a conversation where we talked about how we felt and where we saw it going. He told me that night he was apprehensive because I have dated one of his close friends and 'bro code' or whatever. We decided that what he doesn't know won't hurt him... And we would just let things happen and see where it leads.
Since that night we have seen each other 2 or 3 times a week and cuddle and kiss and get food and just hold hands and talk. He seems to truly care and as much as I know he wants to sleep with me, he doesn't push for it and keeps waiting for a time when it won't be rushed. Everything's great, I just wonder how long I should wait until I can expect things to be public or official?
Most Helpful Guy
I think no need to rush it, especially if this relationship is implicitly monogamous, not open. Next time you two are cuddling and kissing though, if it's really important to you, you might gently talk to him about it and exchange feelings. It helps if you aren't confrontational about it and doing it in this warm and affectionate context, perhaps with some humor here and there to diffuse any awkwardness.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
Most Helpful Girl
if and when you feel comfortable enough to have sex would be a good time to discuss with him your labels, where you see it going, expectations, etc.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE