I've never had a boyfriend and that's because the guys who show interest in me, I'm never interested back.
but the thing is the guys who like me are "in my league." (Put it in quotes bc I know some people don't believe in leagues)
The guys who like me, are the guys I should stick to, but yet I just don't want them.
Its not that I believe I'm out of their league or that I'm too good for them. i'm just not attracted to them.
The kind of guys I like, never like me back or sometimes don't even like me as a friend. But yet I keep chasing them and only hope to date someone like them.
I know I will never have a chance with them. And sometimes I feel I need to stop chasing the guys who clearly I'm never gonna get and that I should stop being picky and stick to my own league.
(And this may sound like this is only based on looks but it's on personality too. )
Most Helpful Guy
I understand completely what you're talking about! I do the EXACT same thing with girls and have gone over the same thing in my head over and over again. Like there's this one girl chasing me now and she almost sounds perfect. But I just don't feel the same and don't feel any chemistry. I can't force it to happen. I think it comes down to opposites attract. It's weird but it's the way it goes1
Most Helpful Girl
I'm in the same case. i'm 18 and the guys who ask me out, i'm just not attracted to them (it's skater or geek guys but I'm really not attracted to them at all).
And the guys I like are always some player who just are interested in sex.
I don't think it's being picky because if you are with someone you are not attracted it's just leading them on for nothing.0