2 wknds ago I ran into him at the bar, I approached him. We talked a lot, he bought my drinks. At bar close he offered to give me a ride. He asked if he could use my BR, then he joined me on the couch. We talked, he held my hand & initiated kissing & was sweetly affectionate. Things got heavier, I told him that I don't have sex right away & he said he doesn't either. We cuddled, fell asleep. He text me casually after that (offered me a ride to my car the next day) & message me a couple days later saying he wanted to hang out again.
Saturday he picked me up & took me to dinner. We talked casually, held doors for me. He opened up a lot about his families issues in the past & current & his near death accident. We got back to my place & he came in & we chatted on the couch for an hr. He left bc I had to get my daughter. We hugged & said we should watch the Super Bowl together. I asked for a kiss & he gave me 3 kisses. Communication has been slower since (we've never texted TOO much because we are both busy people). Yesterday we chatted quite a bit, I saw him briefly bc I snapped him a pic of Tbell, it led to me picking him up some to bring to him at work (no one was around, after hours he works on his own projects). He seemed quiet & shy, showed me around. That night he message me & thanked me for dinner. I asked him if he was shy & he said, "Little bit at first lol is that bad?" I said, "No lol I just like you & I can't tell how you're feeling so I thought maybe you're shy" he didn't reply. I asked him if it was ok, he didn't message me until morning & said "sorry I passed out on u"
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a much better reply would have been "no lol actually it's cute :) "
the last part of your text could have stung his pride a little. but honestly you are both adults so while you unintentionally put put your foot in your mouth, if he can't get over that statement he really needs to grow up.
I'd say continue like nothing is wrong (nothing should be wrong). and just say some things going forward that let him know you think of him as manly.
should clear any misunderstanding right up. and again, he really should have skin thick enough to handle that though. so shouldn't be a problem.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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